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I found it interesting to observe, today, a sight that was very familiar just a few years ago. Only at that time, I was of necessity a participant. Today, I was simply an observer.
Jr. High girls can be very emotional about everything. They can be exceptionally sensitive, hurting each other both deliberately and accidentally. As a teacher, there were numerous times I was called on to mediate between two hurt or angry, and usually tearful parties.
So it happened today. There was a basketball game – and then there were just two clueless boys and two teary groups of girls. I don’t know who started any of it, but I saw one girl who was masking hurt with a tough exterior, and two others teary eyed. There was an apology, which was gracelessly ignored, and the reaction caused pain to those apologizing.
It made me reflect on my own days of mediating. It also caused me to pray for wisdom and grace for the male PE teacher who had to deal with the situation.
One thing that made a pretty distinct impression on me was the simple fact that there was an amazing tool at my disposal that I had in the US and the teachers here do not have. That is an appeal to Christianity, to the example of Jesus.
I taught in Christian schools. The children there had the same problems that children here have. They hurt each other, fight, call names, make fun. They are still children. But I could point them to an example and a standard that made it possible for normal children to become more like Christ.
I remember asking teary girls involved in a tiff to consider each other, rather than their own personal hurts. I advised them to love their “enemy” and to refrain from telling unkind tales, even true ones. I based this on an authority that their parents had taught them to respect, an authority full of wisdom beyond that of myself, or anyone at the school.
On days like today, I realize that the value of the moral teachings of Jesus supersede any limits of “Christian culture”. The principles are true in any culture, any society, any context. They do not change, because the one who made them does not change.
The sad part is that, even teaching the morality that Christ taught is not sufficient for salvation. The way is narrow, and few there be that find it – even those who earnestly proclaim the radical morality of the Bible cannot find salvation there. Salvation is in Christ alone, not in abstract teachings or even concrete application.
For the sake of the students today, I hope that they will someday – and better, soon – learn the way to treat people as Jesus did. But even more than that, I hope that they will come to accept the way that Jesus desires treats us – as sinners who are saved through His blood sacrifice. May salvation truly come to these children, these people, this land.