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Monday, 29 October 2007

  • of aprons, baking, and cleaning

    If you head to www.xanga.com/randy_and_tricia you can see the same post there too.  I'm closing this site down in a couple of weeks.

    I have the day off today.  Last week (Tues - Sun) was a 6 day work week, and this has been a much anticipated day off.  I slept in, did a little cleaning this morning, and decided to do some baking this afternoon.

    First I mixed some sweet roll dough.  Since I was doing some kneading and mixing, I put on an apron before starting.  Finishing that, I knew I needed some supplies for the rest of the things I was making.

    I decided not to take off the apron . . . Japanese women wear them to the grocery store all the time.  So I grabbed some money, my keys, and the money, and headed to the store.  I got the things I needed, and went to check out.

    While it is true that Japanese women wear aprons to the store, most of us English speaking non-natives don't.  Also, we are fairly widely known around town as teachers.  The clerk, after she checked the groceries, told me (in Japanese,) "Oh teacher, you look so cute wearing a Japanese apron."

    I never dreamed that the quickest way to a compliment would be to go out in public looking like I just mixed a cake!  But apparently she thought that my adaptation to the culture was adorable and felt the liberty to tell me so.  This isn't extremely common in Japan.  Most people don't give direct compliments.  For this lady to tell me that was a real rarity . . . and I guess it would be correct to say that I was blessed to feel cute even dressed in nothing particularly special.  That, and my husband's compliments on the cinnamon rolls were the highlights of my day.

Friday, 26 October 2007

  • Am I a universalist?

    I am copying all of my posts to www.xanga.com/randy_and_tricia now.  I will be closing this site next month, so if you want to continue to read my thoughts, be sure to head over and bookmark or subscribe there.

    I am not sure that we - Jews, Moslems, and Christians, do not worship the same God.  (Perhaps especially Jews and Christians, as my understanding of Islam is limited.)  I don't doubt that God reveals himself to people outside of a given religion.  He is God, he can do that.  Their understanding of Him is limited and incomplete - but then, by nature of who God is and who people are, that is true of all religions and peoples.  No one can fully comprehend God.

    What I am sure of is that there is only one way TO that God, and that is through Jesus Christ.  I don't believe that those who sincerely follow a false religion can actually be saved through their faithful following.  Jesus himself said he is the Way.  He said the path is narrow and there are few who find it.  Only those who find the True Way will be restored in relationship, will be saved from the wages of sin, which is death.

    So, am I a universalist?  To believe that God may reveal himself to others, but not completely?  To believe that while there is only one way to God, there may be more than one way that desires to reach God?

Thursday, 25 October 2007

  • All around the world . . .

    In case you missed it, you may want to check out this entry.  You can find this posting on www.xanga.com/randy_and_tricia as well.  Be sure to bookmark that page, as this one will be closing next month!

    I found it interesting to observe, today, a sight that was very familiar just a few years ago.  Only at that time, I was of necessity a participant.  Today, I was simply an observer.

     

    Jr. High girls can be very emotional about everything.  They can be exceptionally sensitive, hurting each other both deliberately and accidentally.  As a teacher, there were numerous times I was called on to mediate between two hurt or angry, and usually tearful parties.

     

    So it happened today.  There was a basketball game – and then there were just two clueless boys and two teary groups of girls.  I don’t know who started any of it, but I saw one girl who was masking hurt with a tough exterior, and two others teary eyed.  There was an apology, which was gracelessly ignored, and the reaction caused pain to those apologizing.

     

    It made me reflect on my own days of mediating.  It also caused me to pray for wisdom and grace for the male PE teacher who had to deal with the situation.

     

    One thing that made a pretty distinct impression on me was the simple fact that there was an amazing tool at my disposal that I had in the US and the teachers here do not have.  That is an appeal to Christianity, to the example of Jesus.

     

    I taught in Christian schools.  The children there had the same problems that children here have.  They hurt each other, fight, call names, make fun.  They are still children.  But I could point them to an example and a standard that made it possible for normal children to become more like Christ.

     

    I remember asking teary girls involved in a tiff to consider each other, rather than their own personal hurts.  I advised them to love their “enemy” and to refrain from telling unkind tales, even true ones.  I based this on an authority that their parents had taught them to respect, an authority full of wisdom beyond that of myself, or anyone at the school.

     

    On days like today, I realize that the value of the moral teachings of Jesus supersede any limits of “Christian culture”.  The principles are true in any culture, any society, any context.  They do not change, because the one who made them does not change.

     

    The sad part is that, even teaching the morality that Christ taught is not sufficient for salvation.  The way is narrow, and few there be that find it – even those who earnestly proclaim the radical morality of the Bible cannot find salvation there.  Salvation is in Christ alone, not in abstract teachings or even concrete application. 

     

    For the sake of the students today, I hope that they will someday – and better, soon – learn the way to treat people as Jesus did.  But even more than that, I hope that they will come to accept the way that Jesus desires treats us – as sinners who are saved through His blood sacrifice.  May salvation truly come to these children, these people, this land.

     

  • End of an era . . .

    Not that two years really comprises an era. . .

    Since I turned 18, my life has been to some greater or lesser degree, divided into two year segments.

    I spent two years as a college student living on campus.  Two more off-campus.  Two years teaching Jr. High in Texas.  Two years teaching 5th grade in Mansfield.

    Then I came to Japan.  I spent two years here, single, developing a relationship, and discovering a new way of life - that of a foreigner with something to share.  These two years in Japan have been chronicled here on xanga under the blog name of "hopenafuture".

    But now I am planning to spend the next two years here in Japan as a married woman.  My husband and I are starting a home and family together.  We are learning what it is to be one though we are two.  And we started a blog together too, at www.xanga.com/randy_and_tricia 

    And so it will be that my life now will be chronicled, when I do write, or share photos, video, or whatever media I offer, on our site, rather than on my own.

    Over the course of the next month, I plan to subscribe to the same subscriptions on that site as I have here.  I plan to post the same posts on both for a few weeks, then simply post links to my new posts here.  After about a month, and before our Christmas break, I plan to close this site down and use the other exclusively.

    So, if any of you want to continue to get updates on my life - our life - here in Japan, please feel free to head over and subscribe (if you haven't already.)

    Just thought I'd let everyone know.

Wednesday, 24 October 2007

  • Taiko

    I hope this works . . . :)  Enjoy!

    For background on what it is, these are kids from Randy's school, who are playing Japanese drums - taiko.  It's really cool to see them all playing in sync. 

    The video is about 5 min long. . . it was taken at the school festival.  This is a cool part of Japanese culture I wanted to share. . . at least with those with a fast internet connection.

    Online Videos by Veoh.com

Monday, 22 October 2007

  • What you can expect . . .

    Randy and I are almost finished with a weekend (plus) of watching the entire "Lord of the Rings" movies.  It's the first time for me to see the last one of the three, and I'm enjoying it. 

    You will probably be able to see a video of Japanese taiko drums from a recent school festival soon.  I plan to upload that sometime in the next week.

    I also want to get somewhere on editing our wedding video and wedding pictures.  It's on my "to-do" list for the week.

    I'm bummed that I won't have any real motivation to watch the World Series this year.  My favorite team knocked Randy's favorite team out of the running, then got knocked out in the next round.

    I am looking forward to a night of walking with a good friend tomorrow.  I enjoyed a mindless online game - "boomshine" while watching the movie earlier.  If you have time to waste, you could try beating my high score - 327.

    Well, I'm off to bed.  More another time!

Tuesday, 16 October 2007

  • Check it out!

    I put up a picture post on Randy and my joint site.

    Tonight, Randy was nearly an hour later getting home.  The van wasn't there at the normal time, and ended up showing up 45 min. later than normal.  I was a little freaked out, and actually found myself bursting into tears when he got home.

    It was weird, but just goes to show how quickly someone can become incredibly important to you.  I knew full well that he was probably fine and just late. . . but not KNOWing was enough to "freak" me out.

Friday, 12 October 2007

  • Isn't it funny the "impact" people can have on you?

    I was thinking tonight that it is interesting how people you meet make a lasting impression on you.  Sometimes in rather unique ways.

    I had a professor for the honors course at Cedarville - McGoldrick.  He taught history, and Monday was our day with him.  Now he had some interesting oddities - he wore a rather dated plaid suit occasionally, for example.  His classes were precisely 50 minutes long - not a minute longer, but not a minute shorter either! 

    Despite his rather formidable knowledge of history, the thing that I remember most from his class is a pet peeve he once shared with us.  (I'm sure he used a different term for it - but that's what it came down to.)

    This annoyance was the use of the word "impact" to mean, "have an effect on."  The definition was origially, he pointed out, a collision or forceful strike.  And while an impact (forceful strike) would indeed have an effect on the item struck, he stated that to use the word in that way was incorrect.

    Now, I've heard the word in that context so often, I suspected that the updated dictionaries probably reflect the common usage.  And indeed, I was correct, according to dictionary.com.  Interestingly, there was a "Usage note" that stated that the Usage panel overwhelmingly disagreed with that use of the word, but due to common usage it is likely to eventually be assimilated.

    Anyway, I found it amusing that this little annoyance made enough of an impression that when I heard the word used incorrectly recently, my mind immediately went back to those Mondays at Cedarville, when I had to deal with cramped hands and astonishing amounts of information crowding my mind and notebook at the end of the class period.

    You know, I also had to learn what passive voice was for his class - not because he taught grammar, but because he marked off on the history test essays for use of passive voice.  After receiving back an essay which had more red than pencil on the pages, I figured if I wanted to do well, I'd better brush up on my grammar too!

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